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Who Gets the Kids on Halloween? Holiday Parenting Time in Michigan
Who gets the kids on Halloween depends on what your parenting time order says. If Halloween is listed as a holiday in your order, follow it. If your order doesn't mention Halloween, your regular parenting time schedule applies. This year Halloween falls on a Saturday, so in many families that means whoever has the weekend has trick-or-treating. Here is how to figure out where you stand and how to keep the night fun for your kids. Start by reading your parenting time order Pul

Rachel Frawley
2 days ago2 min read


Protecting Yourself With a PPO: A Michigan Guide for Domestic Violence Awareness Month
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. A Personal Protection Order (PPO) is a court order that legally prohibits someone from contacting, threatening, following, or harming you. In Michigan, you can ask a judge for a PPO without paying a filing fee and without an attorney, and in urgent situations a judge can issue one the same day you ask. October is Domestic Violence Aware

Rachel Frawley
Oct 63 min read


Life After Divorce: Ways to Rebuild and Actually Enjoy Your Own Life Again
The divorce is finalized, the paperwork is filed, and technically, you're free. But nobody tells you what to do with a Tuesday night when the kids are at their other parent's house and the house is quiet in a way it's never been before. Or how strange it feels to make a decision, any decision, without checking in with someone else first. If you've found yourself standing in your kitchen wondering "what now," you're not alone. Here's what rebuilding actually looks like, and wh

Rachel Frawley
Sep 223 min read


What Is Child Support Actually Supposed to Cover?
Child support checks arrive on a schedule, but the bills don't stop there. Between school supplies, sports fees, orthodontist visits, and the occasional emergency vet bill for the family dog your kids insisted on, it's easy to wonder what that monthly payment is actually meant to pay for — and what you're expected to cover on your own. If you've ever asked your ex to split the cost of cleats or a class trip and been told "that's not what child support is for," you're not alon

Rachel Frawley
Sep 153 min read


Custody, Fall Sports, and Schedules: Who Decides When Practice Conflicts With Parenting Time?
Custody orders don't automatically decide who wins when practice conflicts with parenting time. Here's what actually determines that — and when it's worth going back to court.

Rachel Frawley
Sep 82 min read


Do You Have to Try Marriage Counseling Before You Can Get Divorced?
No, you are not required to attend marriage counseling before filing for divorce. Here's what the law actually requires and when counseling may still help.

Rachel Frawley
Sep 22 min read


Property Division in Michigan: What You Should Know About Equitable Distribution
Michigan Divides Property Fairly, Not Necessarily Equally One of the most misunderstood parts of divorce is how property gets divided. […]

Rachel Frawley
Aug 272 min read


Michigan Child Custody Basics: How Decisions Are Really Made
Custody Decisions Center on One Standard In Michigan, child custody decisions are guided by a single overarching principle: the best […]

Rachel Frawley
Aug 132 min read


Building a Financial Plan for Your Next Chapter
A New Financial Chapter Begins After Divorce For many women, one of the biggest adjustments after divorce is not emotional […]

Rachel Frawley
Aug 112 min read


Understanding Alimony and What You Should Know Before and During Divorce
Alimony Is Not Automatic, and That Surprises Many Women One of the most common misconceptions about divorce is that alimony, […]

Rachel Frawley
Aug 52 min read


The Financial Checklist Every Woman Needs Before Filing for Divorce
Preparing for Divorce Starts With Preparation Divorce involves more than legal decisions, it often requires significant financial planning. Understanding your […]

Rachel Frawley
Jul 232 min read


How to Tell Your Children About Divorce: Navigating One of the Hardest Conversations as a Parent
There Is No Perfect Way to Have This Conversation Few moments in the divorce process feel as overwhelming as telling […]

Rachel Frawley
Jul 233 min read


Starting Over After Divorce: Rebuilding Confidence and Creating Your Next Chapter
Divorce can leave even the strongest women questioning who they are and what comes next. The life you envisioned may […]

Rachel Frawley
Jul 152 min read


Creating New Summer Traditions After Divorce
Finding Joy in a New Season Summer often brings mixed emotions after a divorce. While it can be a season […]

Rachel Frawley
Jul 82 min read
Summer Loneliness After Divorce
When the House Gets Quiet: Navigating Summer Loneliness After Divorce The bags are packed. The sunscreen is in the car. […]

Rachel Frawley
Jun 23 min read
Healthy Co-Parenting & Vacation Planning in Michigan
Healthy Co-Parenting and Navigating Vacation: How to Make It Work for Your Family Vacation should be one of the best […]

Rachel Frawley
Jun 23 min read
Grey Divorce: Starting Over After 50 and Why It’s More Common Than You Think
Grey Divorce in Michigan: What You Need to Know Divorce later in life is on the rise. The rate among […]

Rachel Frawley
Jun 22 min read
Summer Break, Shared Parenting: How to Navigate Child Custody When School’s Out
School’s out, but for co-parents, summer can bring a whole new set of challenges. Here’s how to get ahead of […]

Rachel Frawley
May 102 min read


Divorce and Mental Health: You Don’t Have to Go Through This Alone
May is Mental Health Awareness Month and for many people navigating divorce in Michigan, this is a reminder that taking […]

Rachel Frawley
May 104 min read


How to Initiate Child Support in Michigan
Protecting Your Child’s Future Starts Here Pursuing child support isn’t about conflict. It’s about making sure your child has what […]

Rachel Frawley
May 102 min read
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